For those that feel pressured to monetize a hobby—just because you can, doesn’t mean you should. With so many avenues to market and sell basically anything, plus a slew of people that make it look like a cinch on social media, it’s easy to feel like you’re missing out not selling those craft candles or whittled creations, but that FOMO kind of takes the joy out of the whole thing, doesn’t it?

It shifts your favourite activity from an intrinsic motivator (interest, joy, relaxation, etc.) to an extrinsic motivator (money, praise, rewards, etc.), and that expectation could put a damper on things. Suddenly, you’re worried about finding more time or the proper tools or getting things exactly right when this is something you once did to unwind.

Of course, you can monetize your hobby if you want, but keep in mind, it’s already valuable enough to you even if you choose not to. And just because you’re good at it doesn’t mean it needs a price tag. Maybe it’s something you keep for yourself or share as a gift.

I write this after making a few batches of candles earlier this afternoon. Something I often do simply because I like them, and so do my friends and family. They put it on their wish list for presents.

Would I sell them in an Etsy shop or haul them to a craft market? Probably not—unless I wanted to brand them “ugly candles” or spend more time than I want to figuring out how to get a smooth finish. But people have definitely suggested it. Rather than feeling pressured, I’ve just learned to take it as a compliment, say thank you, and carry on.